Forgiveness is often seen as the key to healing, but forgiving too soon can silence vital emotions and leave you unprotected.
If you’re struggling to forgive yourself for something you have done to someone else, the best way is to say "sorry" to that ...
Nobody is perfect. It could have been unintentional, but you were the target of their low moment and got wronged in the process. You are feeling the range of lousy emotions: anger, sadness, shame, ...